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Aug. 2nd, 2006 11:32 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
box_of_doomThose of you that know nothing about SHRP, (if you don’t know what that stands for then that would be you), please ignore this post. Well, you don’t have to ignore it, I suppose, but it’s geared towards my fellow RP-ers, so… umm… enjoy the mini-rant?
So, yesterday, some stuff went down. One girl got banned, and, like… 25-ish charas ended up being dropped between the people leaving with her, about half of which were charas that I normally play around with.
I, myself, am staying.
This in itself makes me sad though, because there goes some people that I like to rp with.
But that’s not the main issue.
People on both sides have been saying so many negative things.
I won’t say I know everything, but I would like to think that I know a fair amount, because I have talked to people from both sides, and I think I have a fairly good understanding at least.
The person who was indirectly responsible for the person being banned felt horrible, was even thinking of dropping out herself last night. She felt that bad. She did not want this to happen. Yes, there was tension between the two of them before, but she did not want this to happen.
I heard so many insults to her last night, a lot of them coming from people who I’m not sure even know who she is or who she plays. Correct me if I’m wrong.
The person who got banned, she did deserve it. She said so herself. She was the one that broke the rules, and so really, it’s her own fault. The people who left with her, most of them were upset about anonymous negative comments being given to them, and threats to be banned for being OOC. Frankly, I didn’t see any basis for these, only (if anything) the use of incest, and the characters being to blantant about it.
Yes, the talking back to the anon could have been avoided in most places and vented out otherwise. Yes, snarky comments were made by both sides.
And then, there’s the people commenting on their leaving. Frankly, I didn’t see much wrong with the characters. Maybe it’s because I was rping with them too. Yes, I did think that Klarth and Sengoku smexing it up regularily was a little much, and that has been mentioned at least once, but honestly? Do we need more insults?
Perhaps someone would like to correct me on something that I’m saying. If you have any disagreements or arguments, please tell me. I don’t want to seem a victim here, and I may not know the full story of what’s going on. If people want to give me other reasons why the people were ooc or that they don’t think that so and so did such and such or something, tell me.
I want to be neutral on this. I don’t want to be a victim and I don’t want to yell at people on either side.
Really, I just have one thing to say.
This is roleplaying. It’s supposed to be FUN.
It’s not supposed to make people upset. It’s not supposed to anger them or make them cry.
We’re all here for the same purpose, aren’t we? Just to have fun.
So why can’t we all just get along?
So, yesterday, some stuff went down. One girl got banned, and, like… 25-ish charas ended up being dropped between the people leaving with her, about half of which were charas that I normally play around with.
I, myself, am staying.
This in itself makes me sad though, because there goes some people that I like to rp with.
But that’s not the main issue.
People on both sides have been saying so many negative things.
I won’t say I know everything, but I would like to think that I know a fair amount, because I have talked to people from both sides, and I think I have a fairly good understanding at least.
The person who was indirectly responsible for the person being banned felt horrible, was even thinking of dropping out herself last night. She felt that bad. She did not want this to happen. Yes, there was tension between the two of them before, but she did not want this to happen.
I heard so many insults to her last night, a lot of them coming from people who I’m not sure even know who she is or who she plays. Correct me if I’m wrong.
The person who got banned, she did deserve it. She said so herself. She was the one that broke the rules, and so really, it’s her own fault. The people who left with her, most of them were upset about anonymous negative comments being given to them, and threats to be banned for being OOC. Frankly, I didn’t see any basis for these, only (if anything) the use of incest, and the characters being to blantant about it.
Yes, the talking back to the anon could have been avoided in most places and vented out otherwise. Yes, snarky comments were made by both sides.
And then, there’s the people commenting on their leaving. Frankly, I didn’t see much wrong with the characters. Maybe it’s because I was rping with them too. Yes, I did think that Klarth and Sengoku smexing it up regularily was a little much, and that has been mentioned at least once, but honestly? Do we need more insults?
Perhaps someone would like to correct me on something that I’m saying. If you have any disagreements or arguments, please tell me. I don’t want to seem a victim here, and I may not know the full story of what’s going on. If people want to give me other reasons why the people were ooc or that they don’t think that so and so did such and such or something, tell me.
I want to be neutral on this. I don’t want to be a victim and I don’t want to yell at people on either side.
Really, I just have one thing to say.
This is roleplaying. It’s supposed to be FUN.
It’s not supposed to make people upset. It’s not supposed to anger them or make them cry.
We’re all here for the same purpose, aren’t we? Just to have fun.
So why can’t we all just get along?
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Date: 2006-08-02 05:30 pm (UTC)Also, one thing I have to mention. The train log's never going to get to 2000 without all of us =P
And yes, RPing is supposed to be fun. I'unno what happened. =/
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Date: 2006-08-03 12:04 am (UTC)...yeah... it's gonna be really hard on all my charas, but I have at least one person for all of them... so..... we'll see how it goes, I guess. ^^
*hugs*
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Date: 2006-08-03 12:38 pm (UTC)I don't know exactly what happened either, and if I did I'm sure I'd want to stay out of it too.
Still wanna make Kou and Tobie's memorial? and what's the train log????
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Date: 2006-08-03 02:00 pm (UTC)Yeah... I'm not exactly staying out of it, 'cause I'm sort of... there in the middle... I'm just wanting people to get along.
And yes, we should build a shrine.
And make invitations to Oshawa.
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Date: 2006-08-03 03:38 pm (UTC)I'll have Toboe paint two rocks, one with a wolf and the words "for those I never knew" on the back for the parents, and one with a heart for his dead grandma, to put on the shrine. Do you think others will want to make something for the shrine too (like a painted rock) to remember the dead. If they do it's be cute if there were a school event, where people get visited by the dead summoned by the unstable magic of student wizards and their warm memories...
It's a shame though when people don't get along. It can completely tear apart groups of friends sometimes. I've seen it far too much. Guess that why I tend to prefer small groups
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Date: 2006-08-03 06:54 pm (UTC)Cool! Yeah... I think others might... heck, AL might. :P
...yeah..... SMALL GROUPS RULE!!
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Date: 2006-08-04 02:13 am (UTC)Now what do I have on this compy for invite making... not much hehe i'll still try making one though!
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Date: 2006-08-04 02:15 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-08-04 02:15 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-08-04 02:15 am (UTC)So do we want to do it this, or another weekend?
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Date: 2006-08-04 02:17 am (UTC)What'll we do anyway?
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Date: 2006-08-04 02:29 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-08-04 02:50 am (UTC)Invite so far, kinda simple though.
I'll get on msn tomorrow, we can figure it out then. But anytime this weekend is good for me.
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Date: 2006-08-04 02:54 am (UTC)We need professoinal card makers on our side.
Magically.
With thick, heavy card and shiny gold embossing.
And magic stuffs.
...yeah, all weekend works for me, to the best of my knowledge.
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Date: 2006-08-04 02:57 am (UTC)Anyway nighty time for me, talk to you tomorrow!
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Date: 2006-08-04 03:00 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-08-08 10:29 pm (UTC)<3
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Date: 2006-08-08 10:31 pm (UTC)